sleep when they sleep is crap

Since bringing the baby home, the most frequent piece of (unsolicited) advice I've received is, "sleep when they sleep." This is crap advice. My kid hates naps. I don't know if this is a holdover from the NICU because every time he would finally fall asleep someone would want something from him or if he's … Continue reading sleep when they sleep is crap

journey to fi: january 2020 spending report

kid expenses Kid expenses made up 15 percent of our spending and 15 percent of our income. I'll be honest. I spend a lot of money on our kid. The bulk of the spending was for his Owlet, clothing for future seasons that was on sale, finishing up his play area, trying every remedy available … Continue reading journey to fi: january 2020 spending report

a year of grace: our 2020 goals

We're big on reflecting and setting goals around here. As usual, it took the entire month of January for me to think through what happened in 2019 and consider what we want our life to look like in 2020. 2019: another year of big changes and many successes The changes: I quit my job on … Continue reading a year of grace: our 2020 goals